Personal development and self-help programs aimed at improving health and well-being are experiencing explosive growth.

Reading books, attending conferences, or learning about self-help and self-healing programs are popular among intellectually curious people. However, happiness, well-being, and serenity are not necessarily commonplace among these enthusiasts – even if this is the goal of their quest.

For healthy people, yoga and various forms of meditation are not only excellent relaxation tools, but they can also improve mindfulness, emotional awareness, serenity, kindness, compassion, joy, and mental calm. By shifting the focus to the practice itself, yoga and meditation have become popular forms of escape that help reduce the perception of daily stress and anxiety and are therefore effective tools for maintaining health and well-being. However, when seeking healing, while self-healing programs are not necessarily doomed to failure, the odds that they will not trigger rapid or significant changes or will fail outright are to be considered.

Those engaged in a self-healing journey through a spiritual awakening will soon realize that this is not an easy-going and quickly done process but a time and energy-consuming lifelong battle. During their journey, self-healing enthusiasts will discover that Western culture mistakenly considers traditional healing therapies practices to be nothing more than a set of easy-to-learn, specific techniques, and procedures - as is Western allopathic medicine. They will discover that all traditional healing approaches are spiritual and holistic. In holistic approaches, physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual health are intertwined through the mind-body connection.

Spirituality and meditation have a long tradition. The teachings of Lao Tzu, Confucius, and Buddha have undergone profound changes during the last 2500 years as they evolved over an extensive geographical space and through large cultural diversities. Religion has been replaced quietly by personal development, inner life with mind emptiness, the prayer of the heart with breathing techniques and self-centering, meditation with yoga, and fasting with detox cures. During the late 60s, the concepts of spirituality and mind-emptiness traditional meditation were hijacked by some enthusiasts of Ulrich Neisser’s cognitive-behavioral model and were shifted from religious, spiritual practice to the practice of mindfulness - which is nothing but a mere cognitive exercise.

The traditional mind-emptiness approach to meditation, known in Western cultures as the Creative Void, Hesychasm, Universal Soul, or the Clear Light, is all about quieting the cognitive aspects of the mind and focusing on feelings, perception, and intuition - while modern mind-fulness meditation is all about intellect and focused thinking. The mind-emptiness-oriented approaches have been systematically associated with measurable, specific health benefits beyond those observed in non-mind-emptiness approaches. Nowadays, mindfulness has lost its traditional roots so much that its effectiveness as a tool for self-healing needs to be revised.

A good example of how traditional wisdom, concepts, and values have been manipulated for the benefit of cognitive models and their derivatives is the well-known quote from Mahatma Gandhi: “Your thoughts become your words, your words become your behavior, your behavior becomes your habits, your habits become your values, your values become your destiny.” What most people ignore is that, originally, this quote started with a phrase that is systematically erased with the intent to distort and manipulate the message of traditional teachings and to create the false impression of a long tradition of the cognitive model.

To restore the true message of the above quote, before the phrase "Your thoughts become your words," you must add "Your beliefs become your thoughts." Adding this original first line to the above quote restores the truth. This completely changes the message of  Gandhi's falsified quote  by clarifying that, according to traditional wisdom, beliefs and intuition are the main source of life reality, not intentional thoughts as the promoters of cognitive models assume. Because, whether secular or religious, beliefs are the real source of everyone's reality.

When Lao Tzu, the founder of Taoism and the author of the famous "Tao Te Chin," assures us that "If you correct your mind, the rest of your life will fall into place," he is clearly referring to "the mind." One should not wrongly assume that by "mind," he meant "brain" or "intellect." When it comes to brain and intellect, Lao Tzu is crystal clear on how to get the most out of it when he suggests that you should "Stop thinking and put an end to your problems." It seems that Einstein understood this message because, several times, he declared: "I think 99 times and find nothing. I stop thinking, swim in silence, and the truth comes to me."

Even if the experience of your fearful feelings happens in the present time, stress relates to past events, and anxiety always relates to future negative outcomes. Because stress and anxiety are always time-shifted, the vast majority of stress and anxiety coping strategies revolve around the concept of anchoring in the present. Therefore, all of these "anchoring" strategies aim to highjack your attention and divert it from reading your unpleasant state of mind to keep your attention as long as possible focused on a pleasant reality, intentionally created and nurtured.

Unfortunately, as soon as you are done with your trick to cope with your trauma, your stress, or anxiety - whether it be the practice of yoga, mindfulness, art therapy, pet therapy, physical training, jogging, fishing, hunting, or any other relaxing activity, you will start again your descent into your initial stressful and anxious state of mind. I hope you have better things to do than look for temporary refuge from your stressful or anxious intrusive thoughts. If meditation had helped you heal, you wouldn't be here looking for a solution to your problem.

The effectiveness of self-healing programs is conditioned not only by the limits of one's beliefs but also by the ability of the practitioner to focus effectively on their practice. This task is difficult to complete when the mind is crippled by overwhelming fearful or painful feelings. This is why self-healing programs are not the best option in serious situations requiring rapid intervention.

The irreducible enthusiasts of self-hypnosis will come to know that the induction of hypnosis itself does not bring any health benefits besides relaxation. It is the suggestion contained in a hypno-therapeutic framework that leads to improvements in health. These suggestions represent the hallmark of each type of hypnotherapy.

Spiritual awakening is a profound change that can only happen if you truly believe in and practice it. It seems that the rational mind and intellect were given to us rather to trigger our existential curiosity and motivate the search for spirituality than to help us understand it rationally.

Spirituality is not necessarily about intellect, cognition, or understanding. Spirituality is all about quieting the mind and focusing on perception, feelings, and intuition.

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